Question 1

Who can attend the Grief Café?

Accepted Answer

Absolutely anyone! Our Grief Café is open to everyone, regardless of age, circumstances or who they have lost. You don’t need to have experienced a particular type of bereavement to come along. Everyone is welcome.

Question 2

Can I bring my children?

Accepted Answer

Of course! Children are very welcome, and we encourage families to come along together. We often organise crafts and activities that children can enjoy, helping to make the café a welcoming space for all ages.

Question 3

Do I have to talk about my grief?

Accepted Answer

Not at all. There is absolutely no pressure to talk about your loss or share anything personal. You can chat, join in an activity or simply sit and enjoy a cuppa. It’s entirely up to you.

Question 4

Do I need to book, and is there a charge to attend?

Accepted Answer

No, there’s no need to book, and our Grief Café is completely free to attend, including refreshments and activities. You’re welcome to pop in whenever the café is running and stay for as long or as little as you like.

Question 5

What happens at the Grief Café?

Accepted Answer

Every café is a little different! There are opportunities to chat, meet new people and enjoy refreshments. We also organise a variety of seasonal crafts and activities throughout the year. You can join in as much or as little as you wish.

Question 6

Can I come on my own?

Accepted Answer

Absolutely. We understand that walking into somewhere new can feel a little daunting, especially when you’re grieving. You’ll always receive a friendly welcome, and there’s no need to bring anyone with you.

Question 7

Is the Grief Café a counselling or therapy session?

Accepted Answer

No, our Grief Café is an informal, supportive social space rather than a counselling service. It’s somewhere people can connect, share experiences if they wish and enjoy being around others in a relaxed environment.

Question 8

Does it matter how long ago my loved one died?

Accepted Answer

Not at all. Grief has no time limit, and everyone experiences it differently. Whether your loss was recent or many years ago, you are always welcome. There is no right or wrong time to seek companionship and support.

Question 9

Where and when does the Grief Café take place?

Accepted Answer

Our Grief Café takes place at Southampton Crematorium, West Chapel, usually once a month. Details of upcoming dates and times are shared on our Harlee’s Angels Facebook page.

Question 10

What is Harlee’s Angels and who does the charity support?

Accepted Answer

Harlee’s Angels is a charity established in memory of Harlee, who sadly passed away aged just 11 in 2020.Our charity supports families following the sudden loss of a child or young person up to and including the age of 19. We provide practical, emotional and financial support to families when they need it most.Although our charity’s main focus is supporting families following the loss of a child, our Grief Café is open to everyone, whatever their experience of bereavement.

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